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Saturday, March 24, 2007

Enjoying the journey

Honk Kong is quite a place. As I prepare to be a "new dad" I find myself and my family with a few days to kill in Hong Kong. My original thought about how this time would be spent was in a hotel room trying to overcome jet lag. Surprisingly, jet lag has not been a large factor and was, for the most part, a non-issue after 24 hours. Now I find myself in a brief vacation mode prior to meeting Malea. Though not in or near her home city, HK is giving us a large dose of eastern culture. It is a fascinating blend of eastern and western civilization. The large western influence is a nice transition from the states before going to central China where western influence will be all but non-existent. In HK, the streets are unique and curious - much like a National Geographic film. But, it is also common to see a McDonalds or Starbucks; when one is spotted suddenly the area feels a little more normal. The "normalcy" of drinking a McDonalds coke, however, quickly goes away when getting inside a HK taxi. At one such occurrence when no amount of pointing or maps could close the communication gap between me and our taxi driver, my aborting the mission was narrowly avoided by the $20 bill my mother in law placed in the driver's lap. Suddenly the communication improved and he promptly got us to our destination. I fancy myself as one who studdies effective communication but flopping a twenty in a person's lap was not a style I had read about or ever tried!

An alternate to the taxi, the train is a preferred mode of travel and on it we met many nice people. One fella whom I struck up a conversation with was from San Diego but was working in India as a software developer. He was on holiday to HK prior to his return to the states. It was not long that I uncovered his home was once Seattle and not far from where we live. Right there, amongst hundreds of Chinese people on a crowded train, I once again felt "normal" and the comfort of familiarity made the world a little smaller.

On a trip like this, it always made sense to me that I would be the one to learn and gain from our visiting China. I never expected we could contribute to, and perhaps be a highlight in, another explorer's trip. On a side walk, an Asian family cornered Kiersten and Madison and before we knew it were all taking turns getting their picture taken with them. They were apparently fascinated by their blond hair. Abby and I stepped back and let our girls decide how to react to their new found fame. We were rewarded by watching our girls pose and smile and though not comfortable, they were tolerant of their new admirers and smiled for the pictures.

It is clear to me more than ever there is much to be gained from this trip. I consider it a trip of a lifetime. We are anxious to see Malea; she is our reason for coming. Surrounding the great event of meeting her, however, is time to enjoy her country and its people. My world has been enlarged even in the short time I have been here. I can't imagine what my perspective will be two weeks from now.

Life is, indeed, a grand adventure. I expect this two weeks will make my highlight films sixty years from now (Lord Willing) when I scroll through the memories. Just to make sure, I am taking lots of pictures (almost 200 in two days).

A few more days till Malea. Between now and then is a lot more culture to experience. I don't know what those days will look like, but I know I will be carrying twenties in case I meet a Taxi driver I need to communicate with.

Marc

5 comments:

Cara said...

Hey Spear Family! Your journal is great - what a fantastic trip. It sounds like God is planting seeds of familiarity all around you to help you with this journey. I hope Kirsten is feeling better. We continue to keep all of you in our prayers. Looking forward to hearing from you again. Stay safe. Much love, Cara

marme said...

Just looking for an update....we PRAY all is going well. It is sunny today, but the rest of the time you have been away has been RAINY!!

Christi said...
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Christi said...

Hi Spear Family..

WOW! Thank you so much for sharing your journey. I read it all and it brought tears to my eyes. How proud you must be of your 2 little girls for being such great travellers and willing to be accepting of different cultures! I know that blondies attract so much attention in different areas of the world! Most of us reading your comments will never have the chance to experience what you are- thank you for sharing!

I am so thankful to know your family- you give me inspiration to live my life in a way that is meaningful. I am proud to know you and can't wait to meet little Malea!

Marc, we are holding down the fort here in the DAFO at State Farm. Making lots of decisions to change a bunch of things. Don't worry, you'll be proud. HA! and kidding...we wouldn't change a thing.

Love to all the family and LOTS of prayers!

Christi

marme said...

I think tonight is the night you meet your precious new daughter.....we prayed for you tonight at bedtime!! We prayed that the transition would go smoothly and that little Malea will LOVE and ENJOY her new family! Can't wait to hear how it is going.

Love, Mike, MaryAnn, Joel & Kaylee